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I'm at the point where I am using certain behaviors in my stalking, not from the standpoint of acting them out, but feeling them, intending them, etc. And these states include an element of self importance in them ie:intimidation, aloofness. Now I am able to switch back to my baseline state, but if those emotions and feelings are energy draining, doesn't that confuse the issue?

only if you take possession of the self-importance you are feeling, or should i say, if it takes possession of you. there's no point in pretending to be something you're not if everyone knows that you're pretending, and there's also no point to it if you forget that you're pretending.