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I notice I always have an erection when I wake up from dreaming. This has led me to make the connection between sexual energy and dreaming that CC talkes about. My problem is I'm worried about my masterbating interfering with my dreaming. I have a high libido and the most I can hold off for is 3 days. Can anybody give me their experiences with this so that I might avoid unnecessary cold showers

My success with matters such as this is to equalize everything by reducing it to thoughts arising. If you're going to think about these things and let your thoughts seem real enough to deal with, to have to do something about, then you're snared... it's too late. Go backwards to the point where you're thoughts are just one description amongst millions.

How do you know what a "hot" girl is?
Isn't this distinction arbitrary, even though consnsus agrees?
Why are butts and breasts attractive? What makes them more than flesh?

Answer: our mind.

If you can't stop thinking, then use thinking to counter thinking by questioning "How can I know that for sure?" or by simply observing the mind as thoughts arising.